Same Man, Different Year
Published: Tue, 09/03/13
When choosing a partner, most of us have an "imprint" (Organic Attraction To A Physical Type)
I see this all the time in consulting. If I work with a woman who has run through a lot of men, I see via the charts that she's finding the same man over and over again, conscious or otherwise.It's sobering to realize that in cases where the woman (or man) has repeated this cycle over time, the quality of the partner they attract tends to drop. The woman will find she gets less and puts up with more than she did five or ten years prior. It's a hard pill to swallow.
Many people leave their relationships prematurely. The going gets tough and they go. They dump the 5'10 guy with dark hair, dark eyes and their next move is what? To go out and find one just like him!
I'm not saying that people should not leave their bad relationships. I am saying that if you leave them prematurely without learning anything, you aren't going to get very far. I am also saying that if you keep this up for 10 or 20 years, you can expect diminishing returns.
In contrast, if you stay in your relationships, problems often resolve themselves as people mature. Saturn (time and commitment) is exalted in Libra (love).
You can see how going off half-cocked in relationship can leave you deprived. Do recognize yourself?
If you want to get serious about solving your problems with commitment, check out my Master Class: Finding Love With Astrology
I devoted two sections to the topic:
SECTION 3: Tackling Commitment Phobia, Part 1: Sagittarius
SECTION 4: Tackling Commitment Phobia, Part 2: Aquarius And Virgo
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