What is the Meaning Of A Saturn Return?
Published: Mon, 03/25/13
First question...
QUESTION: "What is the meaning of a Saturn return?"
ELSA: The Saturn return is when you define yourself as an adult. It occurs at about 28.5 years old.
If you pay attention, you'll see it's very common that people pull their lives together right before they turn 30. A person may quit an addiction, or settle down in a relationship. They may realize they need a real job. For example, I knew a man who quit selling drugs when he was 26. He went to college and became an engineer.
Second question...
QUESTION: "I am struggling with finding someone to share thoughts, emotions, ideas and experiences with whom is sincere, genuine, balanced and evolved."
ELSA: This is the wrong thing to be looking for! Sorry, but it's just not how life works.
In reality, people come together in their various states. The interaction changes them. You are looking for a "finished project"? Why?
The minute you interact with a person, they start to morph. This is true for all, but it's inordinately true for you. You're a double Scorpio with Venus and Uranus in the sign as well. You're going to transform anyone you mix it up with, so your premise here is all wrong.
Your quest for perfection in a partner is a way is doomed to fail and has probably had more to do with being commitment-phobic than anything else.
It's worth uncovering what is driving you. If you really, secretly want to be alone, this is something you want to know about yourself. On the other hand, if you really want to partner and you're subconsciously thwarting yourself, you're liable to keep doing it, until and unless come to understand your own machinations.