I bet you're thinking about something heavyweight at this time. It would be expected with Mercury in Cancer opposing the stellium in Capricorn into the weekend. Security, safety, and commitment are big themes.
Oppositions always bring some kind of tug of war. It's common for people to state (correctly) that a certain dynamic or negative conversation always comes up when they interact with a person or even a group. I don't think many realize you can change this kind of thing by changing yourself.
Think about this now because once Saturn and Uranus square off in the fixed signs in 2021, it's very possible people will be flipped out of their ruts in a split second.
Don't write me about how I am scary! It is not scary to be taken from your rut so that you might find a way to be far happier than you ever thought possible.
Standing across from someone, expecting them to do as you say before you will move so much as an inch is not a winning strategy. If you're stuck like that - you can't call it freedom! Gain ground by thinking about your pathology.