When you are shining yourself, you’re less crazily concerned over whether some guy is interested in you. A woman becomes obsessed with a man because she thinks the man is the life force. She is living through his life, or even feels she is living because of his light.
Others divorce themselves from their solar energy by denying their ego: “I have no ego.”
Really? Then you must not be born yet!
Actually, that’s not true. As far as I’m concerned a baby in the womb has an ego. Why kick me unless you want me to know you are there? Why jam your foot in my ribs for a month and half, huh? Maybe that baby wants some attention after all.
Who wants to spend their life *not* shining? Who wants to have their life be listess, insignificant and unimportant? No one I have ever met.
It sounds too simple but one of the ways people get lost is by making things more complicated than they are!
Have a great day!
Elsa P