The problem was resolved when I decided to become someone who could wrestle WordPress and my forum behind the scenes.
I'd still like to whine about this, but I have to admit there's an advantage to being a baby with some technical skills. Matter of fact, these things are necessary for my survival. That's where Pluto comes in, which is also part for of this harsh cardinal opposition.
If you're willing to "clutch it up", you really don't have to be afraid.