With the Sun, Mercury, Saturn, and Pluto in Capricorn, it's safe to say there are people out there who aren't playin'. This doesn't mean there is no fun to be had.
There is fun to be had with Venus and Jupiter in Sagittarius. You just have to have your fun on your side of the boundary. Stay within the rule of law and such.
There's a balance here if you can bring yourself to accept it. I understand how and why a person might resist this; I've done it myself. But sooner or later, reality intrudes.
Saturn and Capricorn represent reality. This energy will be emphasized now through all of 2020.
It's said that Saturn will bring you to your knees. There is a good reason for this. It's because it's true.
It's not that bad to be brought back to earth... a human being. After all, it's people, not gods who get to fall in love and stay that way. To support others and to be supported.
You may be able to imagine something better, but eventually the veil drops and you find yourself standing there with nothing. At that point, something real looks great, even when limited.