The stellium in Scorpio doesn't play for the most part. The moon in Taurus will ingress into Gemini this morning. She'll square Saturn from either sign. This adds up to "harshly judgmental".
Knowing the tendency is out there should make it easier to avoid. You can
control yourself, of course, but if you run into someone like this, and conflict is stupid, you can opt to give the person the win as you transcend the conflict.
The latter is Venus Virgo opposing Neptune in Pisces thing. Yes, you sacrifice yourself, but it's with intention (Mercury Mars). This can be tactical, as you're maintaining your focus, and staying on task. It's also an emotional boundary. Saturn gets his
due.