I love questions like this, and the people who ask them! I told her I would ask on my blog and see what came up. I had some new ideas around this, yesterday.
I am a very curious - period. There are a lot of indications of this in my
chart, but Mars conjunct Mercury in the 9th house, alone would cause this condition. I simply want to know things and I will push to learn. I will stress myself in the pursuit of knowledge.
In the post above, I'm clueless but that's because I didn't know there was something to know! If someone twinkles interesting content in my periphery, they will get my attention and I'll be off to grab it and
discern, with great determination.
This desire overrides other things in my character. "Knowing" is a priority to me. But what about others? What about you?
Feelings are the most important thing to some. This would explain why a person might avoid knowing something and it makes sense. If the person is feeling good; "don't fix it
if it ain't broke" comes into play. Why disturb your own peace?
Astrology makes it abundantly clear, we're all individuals. There's a strong tendency to judge people by your personal standard, forgetting that they may have very little in common with you.
I think it would be more productive to consider how the other might complement you
with their differences. As an example, I have Libra... but I have learned to FIGHT from my husband's Aries.